When you walk into any department store you can’t help but notice the extremely large section, sometimes floor, dedicated to women’s handbags and purses. There are many, many people who spend their entire lives focused on designing and creating stylish handbags for women, because they know that for women a handbag is an absolute necessity. Any girl (or woman) over the age of 13 wouldn’t dare go anywhere without a purse or bag of some sort; women are reliant on handbags to carry all of their life’s necessities…and then some.
While men typically have less excess “stuff” and have larger pockets to carry things like a wallet, phone, and keys, men should be afforded the same luxury of being able to have one place to carry and store the things they need any given day….oh wait, they are. There are a decent amount of designers producing nice, high quality bags for men intended for everyday use, but the market for these type of bags is small. This begs the question, if there are designers willing to produce bags for men and there is a need for such bags, why aren’t more men seeking out and buying handbags? The lack of popularity among men is rooted in the extreme popularity among women. Men see mimicking women’s style as making them appear feminine, less masculine, and for a socially conscious straight man, this equates to the fear of appearing gay.
It’s time to eradicate this antiquated way of thinking. There is nothing wrong or weird about a man carrying a handbag, messenger bag, or satchel. There are many handbags designed for men that are functional, extremely stylish, and still masculine, or differentiable from women’s purses and handbags. It’s time that men, gay, straight and everything in between, stop stuffing and stretching their pockets, and embrace the murse (man-purse).